The types of Girls

Thai Bar girls or Go go Dancers
This is the easiest place to pick up a girl but the reasons behind it are very similar to prostitution. First of all you will have to pay a Bar fine for taking the girl out. In some cases, the whole point of it is getting as much money out of you as possible.

When taking one out, remember to keep your valuables safe at all time. Or best don't take them with you.

Girls in clubs
Many girls go to clubs to enjoy an evening with their friends. Others go there to find someone for some after hour fun. If that is what you are looking for, then clubs are the best source to find good girls which don’t cost and are willing to enjoy the night with you.

Thai University Students
These girls study and are mostly still under the support of their parents and establishing a relationship is harder. First of all you must be in their age range and be living in Thailand. These relationships are mostly based on actual feelings towards each other but in some cases the girl will ask for financial support.

Working Class
Having a steady income, these Girls will most probably be looking for a serious relationship with a guy, might be foreign, might be Thai, who knows. More often however, the relationship seems to be legitimate.

Love or Money?

Whatever the situation, a relationship with a Thai women can be compared to one in the West with the sole difference that Money might play a slightly more dominant role. In my experience it is not the purpose of these girls to suck every last Penny of you (except maybe Bar Girls), more over to manage the challenging tasks in Life and keeping their head above Water in terms of Finances.

Another critical point is the understanding of each other. Many Westerners find it hard to understand a Thai women in terms of their thinking process, opinions on certain subjects and common interest. A Thai will most likely never adapt to the way a Westerner acts so it is up to the counterpart to do so.

Thais in their young 20s seem to have a very similar thinking process which isn’t frequent in Western countries. Many young Thai follow a very similar pattern making one encounter many “déjà-vu” when speaking to different Girls. Jokes and conversations can sometimes be close to identical.

Fan, Gik and Jauchuu

If you have spent some time with a Thai girl before you might have come accross these terms, Fan, Gik and Jauchuu. Basically, Fan (pronounced the English way) means Girl/Boyfriend. Gik on the contrary means a person who is not her Boyfriend but whom she sleeps with. And last, Jauchuu can be translated to Playboy, someone who Flirts and goes with many Girls.

Some things to watch out for

During my experience, dumping a Thai women can become bothersome as many times my phone has been flooded with calls and messages.

Thai women can get very jealous at times, sometimes accusing you of flirting with other girls (even when you didn’t really) and this whole experience can be very annoying. In some cases they might not trust you and if you once don’t pick up the phone, she might conclude that you are cheating on her.

All in all having a Thai girlfriend can be a very sweet ingredient  to ones life. A Thai women usually is very caring to their Man and often will go the extra Mile. Furthermore she will likely accept and support your decisions rather than opposing them as seen in some Western countries.

 

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